Sex

"don't worry, it only seems kinky the first time..."

PekoeSecret says: "[Good sex happens] when the emotion drives the service...the physcial connection is supported by emotional clarity....when the creativity is bolstered by security. "

Advice for Lovers

What Men Want

Purity test

Anal sex

Homosexual sex

BDSM or just rough sex

Pedophilia why we have it, what we can do to stop it.

Pornography Good or evil?

Extra marital sex. Why BOTH men AND women cheat.

The Lonely Prayer

Our vibrator,
 which brings us heaven,
  Magic Wand be thy name.
Until I cum,
 thy job be done,
  in showers as it is in bedding,
give us this day our daily bang,
 and forgive us our trembling,
  as we forgive dead batteries
and lead us not into dependence,
 but deliver us from frustration,
for thine is the power,
 the rotation,
  and the vibration,
for ever and ever,
 OOOHhhhhh God!

Sex and God

The Bible has stories of kings and queens having sex with their maids and servants, with their children, with their in-laws and many times with an audience. God even sanctioned many of these couplings, yet they are considered evil and deviant today.

Even in the story of Sodom and Gomorrah, it would appear that God was mad primarily because of the raping and forcing of sex on people that weren't willing or old enough. There were other things going on, like prostitution and swinging, but these have been going on for thousands of years before and after Sodom and Gomorrah, and God hasn't been so upset about it. God may not have approved of those things, but there was no destroying of cities as a result.

See also:

• dovalsamir at -Remove-gmail.com refers to " http://eroticastory.ca EroticaStory.ca provides adult erotica stories and focuses mainly on content rather than other diversion for readers." +
• alexkiv-gmail- refers to

  http://www.asexstories.com/ If you love sex stories, you need to check that website: asexstories.com. Featuring 12000 of user-submitted stories, real-time stories post and erotic videos archive.

• http://www.tkastnd.org An excellent forum for the support of victims of sexual abuse.+
• http://www.libchrist.com LIBERATED CHRISTIANS Promoting Positive Intimacy and Sexuality Including Responsible Nonmonogamy or Polyamory as a legitimate CHOICE for Christians and others / Exposing false traditions of sexual repression that have no biblical basis. Promoting Intimacy & Other-Centered, Loving Sexuality
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• http://www.hai.org The Human Awareness Institute (HAI) was founded in 1968 by Dr. Stan Dale, DHS. Since 1968 HAI has offered workshops dealing with intimate relationships and human sexuality.
   
• http://www.literotica.com The HOW TO contains everything anyone should know about sex. ...and a few things you probably shouldn't. <GRIN>
   
• http://alt.com THE place for kinky people to hang out. If you are into something... interesting... this is where you belong. Yes, it is a pay site, but if you just use it to blog, you can build up enough points to have some access to the rest of the site.
• http://www.tangomag.com/20083640/5-things-i-wish-i-knew-about-sex-at-30.html "Men who love women get to know you over the dinner table, and they apply what they have learned about you there in the bedroom... ..take things slower... ...use fantasy...  "

http://bestdocumentaries.blogspot.com/2008/01/truth-about-female-desire.html
The index finger grows longer in proportions to the amount of Estrogen present in the womb prior to birth. The ring finger grows longer in perportion to the prenatal levels of Testosterone.

The amount of Testosterone present in the womb prior to birth when compared to the amount of Estrogen, determines a number of things in men: How large his penis is, how good he smells to women, and how much women will enjoy watching him move. Women on the other hand, are more likly to be fertile if the had more Estrogen and more likely to be un-inhibited and easy to arouse if they got more Testosterone.

There are two different types of arousal: Mental and physical. And they have almost nothing to do with each other. Women, for example, will respond physically to ANY sexual stimulation no matter how disgusting or contrary to what they want. This is a simple physical response to protect thier organs from damage when they may be forceably penetrated. Mental arousal varies greatly between people. For example, most are more likely to be aroused when happy, but a significant minority are aroused when depressed or upset.

Sexual response depends on the balance between arousal and inhibition.

Alcohol reduces inhibitions mentally and in some cases physically.

The most popular fantasy with women is one of submission, although NOT rape. It removes the need to make decisions and allows one to enjoy the act without guilt. It may be that the increase in power and resposibility has increased the need to give the rains over to another. The second most popular fantasy is of watching two men have sex (without participating). There is a strong seperation between fantasy and any actual desire to do something.

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